13th birthday tea party?

I'm 12, soon to be 13. I was thinking about ideas for a party and I came up with a tea/dinner party. It wouldn't be anything childish like "go on a fairy scavenger hunt", but it wouldn't be anything serious like etiquette cles. The colors would be hot pink and black and instead of hot tea we would serve sodas in teapots. I thought about the mad hatter theme, but I really don't like Alice in Wonderland. The whole thing would be set up under a canopy-like-tent out in the country, and we would have frozen hot chocolate, sandwiches ( i hate cuber so that's totally out of the question), cookies, scones and of course, cake. Everybody could dress cute but kind of shabby chic. And for entertainment we would make homemade bubble bath, play board games etc. I'm not big on huge parties so I would have a small get together with maybe 7 girls including me. There would be Gerber daisies and roses everywhere. So, basically what im saying is I would have a teenager like tea/dinner party. I'd just really like my party to be talked about because of how cute it was rather than how lame it was.